Stress management
Stress is a natural component of our everyday lives.
In this increasingly hectic and complex world, it can affect our general well
being, health and work performance. It is therefore essential to be in possession
of effective techniques to prevent or alleviate the potentially debilitating
symptoms. Self hypnosis and meditation are both wonderful techniques to use,
the underlying tenet and method is different but
physiologically they have the same outcome with
lots
of research to back up the positive results. Self
hypnosis tends to have a more specific outcome and
contains embedded commands whereas meditation is
more about detachment.
Article on How the body
reacts to stress
Article on
Pro-Active Health -
benefits of exercise
Self hypnosis and
meditation are available to individuals and in
an evening class format.
Stress Management is available to individuals
usually as part of broader therapy and also
available in a workshop format:
Holistic Stress Awareness and
Management
How the
Body Reacts to Stress
Release into
the bloodstream of adrenaline/noradrenalin, thyroid
hormones and cholesterol. These act as powerful
stimulants, speeding up reflexes, increasing heart
rate, raising blood sugar levels and metabolism. The
results are: increased short-term capacity and
performance, boost energy supplies and sharpened
responses.
If all this isn’t translated into instant action,
long-term consequences can include disorders such
as: heart disease, strokes and kidney damage. A
disturbance of blood sugar levels can aggravate
diabetes. Racing metabolism can lead to exhaustion
and eventual physical collapse.
Shut down of
digestive system – allows blood to be diverted from
the stomach so that it can be put to use in the
lungs and muscles.
Prolonged shut-down can lead to stomach and
digestive problems, particularly when food is forced
into an unwilling system.
Air passages in
lungs dilate – allows blood to take up more oxygen,
a process assisted by an increased breathing rate.
Super-oxygenated blood can lead to blackouts
and upset heart rhythms.
Release into the
bloodstream of endorphins acting as natural
painkillers and reducing sensitivity to injuries.
When endorphins are depleted this leaves us
more sensitive to routine aches and pains.
Release into the
bloodstream of cortisone from the adrenal glands –
shutting down allergic reactions which could
interfere with breathing.
Lowers the body’s immune reactions to all
kinds of infection and once immediate effects wear
off, all allergic reactions can return with
increased force.
Senses become more
acute and mental performance improves, enhancing
short-term functioning.
Above a certain limit or if prolonged, these effects
go into reverse
If you
are physically fit, you can react better to stress
and depression. A regular exercise program offers
the following benefits:
·
Reduces
the risk of premature death by 40%
·
Activates
the parasympathetic nervous system
·
Improves
cardiovascular functioning and muscle tone thus
preventing wear and tear
·
Increases
intake of oxygen – the fuel of metabolism
·
Lower
blood pressure
·
Improved
lung capacity
·
Improved blood flow
to and through the brain
STAMINA: eg. Swimming, cycling,
running, jogging, and brisk walking
STRENGTH: eg. Weight lifting, circuit
training
SUPPLENESS: eg. Stretching, tone-up
exercises, yoga. Stretching exercises
Reduce
tension in muscles, can be done in a few minutes and
Have an
immediate effect on our sense of well-being.
Although each of the three S’s are important,
Stamina is the element which will stand you in best
stead when it comes to facing pressure.
Finding the Time
to Exercise
You need a minimum of
two 20 minute exercise sessions per week (three 30
minute workouts are better).
·
Choose an
aerobic exercise (from the Stamina list) that you
enjoy
·
Non-competitive exercise is best.
·
Pick a
set time to exercise.
·
Gradually
increase exercise intensity and duration.
·
Even a
little exercise is better than none.
·
Find an exercise
partner.
Stress management can simply mean taking some time
out for YOU -
stress busters
Depression
Holistic therapy particularly cognitive behavioural
therapy using hypnotherapy can not only relieve the
symptoms of depression but greatly reduce the
chances of remission because of the educational
component.
Anxiety
Takes a holistic approach which usually includes
cognitive behavioural therapy and management skills
including abdominal breathing
Smoking cessation
Hypnotherapy has a proven success rate for smoking
cessation and usually smoking stops after one
session.
A typical smoking cessation consists of some
pre-work, usually one meeting which is recorded - up
to 2 hours.
Testimonials
“…. I am doing really well the majority of the time. I have most
definitely moved on and up from the place I was at the beginning of
our sessions. I feel very relaxed, open and content with myself. It
has taken a long time to realize that my disorder is not in control
of me but I am the one who makes the choices as an adult and not as
a vulnerable, emotional child. This has been my latest light bulb
moment that ‘I am writing my own book’ I do not have to take on the
beliefs and emotions of those who were around me as a child, I can
strive to be the best person I can be without any reference to the
past.
You have definitely
opened up a new door for me in my world. I see things very
differently from before. I never believed in angels before I met
you, now I most definitely do. I feel my angel with me, when I lose
my way I ask for help and strength and I always get it. If I feel I
am reverting back to my old habits, which has happened on a couple
of occasions, I ask for guidance or a new piece of learning and it
always works. I suddenly feel better, turned on again to what I am
achieving and some positive message will come into my thoughts, then
I move on
It has not all been
easy, I have to keep working on myself everyday to move onwards and
strengthen my spirit, if I let it go for a few days the old habits
and self criticism and old beliefs creep back in. Although I now
know how to deal with it. My vision and self belief has changed so
much sometimes I cry, but it is tears of joy not sadness anymore and
I have you to thank for that (and myself of course).
I am entering the
10K this year to fulfil a dream I’ve always had. Before it would
have been to stop my eating disorder now it is to see myself at the
starting line of the run with everything behind me and hopefully to
finish! Using food to fuel my body not to eat away my feelings,
knowing that my angel is with me every step of the way. The only way
I can describe the way I feel inside is a solid column of light and
energy with no cracks that leak away losing energy. If here is a
leak at any time it s quickly healed and the balance is restored.
Thanks again Vicki
for your help in making me believe in myself and showing me a new
way in this world. I certainly wouldn’t be at such great place in my
life without your help”. T 2001 (Age 25)
Presenting
problem – bulimia
Treatment
–
Mnemodynamic psychotherapy
6 sessions
“Thank you for
helping me. I have been dry for 18 nights, I am trying for 28. I
have only had 8 wet nights since I saw you 8 weeks ago (3 in the
first week). Thank you.” M 2002 (age 8) – who continued to improve
and stay dry.
Presenting
problem – bed wetting
Treatment
– hypnotherapy, 1 session and a personalized audio tape.
“….the midwives all
commented on how calm she (the baby) was during the labour,
especially considering the length of it. ….because I was so calm and
had no pain killers. I have to admit I had a great support team but
am still proud of myself….I am still using the hypnosis to help
myself sleep but also just to relax when she is up all night…Thank
you for all your help. I am sure it would have been a lot harder to
endure without it”. R March 2002
Childbirth
where chemical pain management not an option.
Treatment
- Self hypnosis and pain management with husband present- 4 sessions
“Just a quick note
to say thank you so much for your help. I had my talk on Tuesday
(3.12.02) and it went very well. My teacher couldn’t believe I ever
had a problem. He thought I was a very confident speaker and it gave
me no bother, even though I had potential for lecturing! NO CHANCE!
Although I do feel a lot more comfortable than before and it’s all
thanks to you! Will be sure to recommend you to others”. H –
student.
Presenting
problem – anxiety on public speaking
Treatment
– hypnotherapy 2 sessions.
“I want to thank you very much for the
part you played in helping me to achieve a successful outcome to my
course. You gave me one of your meditation tapes and it did just
what I needed at the time I needed it. I had the final exam at the
weekend and I passed it and was told then that I had also passed the
written papers I had sat the previous month. A wonderful end to
what has been quite a tough year's course”. M. March 2003
Presenting
problem – exam nerves.
Treatment
- audio tape for relaxation.
“I'm now a happily married lady. It's
all thanks to you remember. You were the one who taught me that I
had to start living for me. Thank you”. F. 2003
Presenting
problem – general difficulties and unhappiness
Treatment
–
Mnemodynamic psychotherapy
8
sessions over extended period.
Good afternoon - I hope you are well. I
feel great at the moment and have done for the past couple of weeks
- a large part of this I believe is down to you and the meditation
tapes I've been listening to, so huge thanks to you from me ! It has
been a great help to me at a very difficult time indeed, you are
streets ahead of the Albyn hospital. Thank-you very much for all
your help again, it was great! J 2005 (48)
Presenting problem – stress
Treatment
- audio tape for relaxation and active listening 2 sessions
Vicki, I would like
to tell you how much you helped me, from the first phone call I
could sense you were a caring person and someone I could relate
to. As you are now aware I am a private person and find it
difficult to share my feelings, after our first meeting I
realised I could trust you implicitly and felt at ease telling
you how I felt. since then I began to look forward to our
meetings and usually went home tired but in my heart knew that
one day I was going to feel better than I had done for years.
That happened and was able to do things I had not dreamt
possible. I have recently returned from five weeks at the other
side of the world, I achieved that only because of the help I received from you
and the caring support of my husband and close friends. I now
feel better than I have done for years and I cannot thank you
enough for what you did to help me through what was the most
awful part of my life. my husband and friends see me as a
changed person with a different attitude to life since my
meetings with you. thank you from the bottom of my heart.
regards, C 2003
Presenting
problem – depression - feeling so low that life was not
worth living, desperate for understanding, anxiety, fear of driving
Treatment – Extended
counselling including hypnotherapy and
Mnemodynamic psychotherapy
6 sessions